Every day we do things that can't disturb us or our life. Why? Because
we don't love changes if something is changing in your life you are so afraid
and dizzy that you can't continue your life. For example if you like a
restaurant and you go there for 5 years in a row and everything is good even if
you notice time to time that your glass is a little filthy but this is better than
to go in a new restaurant. Why do they continue to go in the usual restaurant
and not in a new one? Because they are afraid of what they can find there. It
is the same thing with your relationship even though your boyfriend is an ass
is better than another person that you don't know. At least this one is with
you for 5 years. Wroooong! Day by day you're saying,''i am in love'' and you
give me examples like : I can't sleep without him, I can't do shopping without
him, I can't eat without him. Girls if you didn't get in love with him in the
first time after 5 years it doesn't mean that you can't do those things because
you are in love is because you made a little friend called HABIT. It looks like
love, but is something else. It’s like you are walking on the street and you
find a little rat that is so ugly and it doesn't have any hair. First you are
disgusted but after some months it seems kind of cute and after some years you
will ''love'' him so much that you can't live without him and when you
presenting him to your friends they will also be disgusted as you were when you
saw him for the first time. No one will understand how you can love that rat so
much even though he bites you occasionally and he is so ugly. You are used to
him, you don't love him. I agree that love comes in time but you have to feel
something about that person when you meet him, something true and nice. There
are girls that have relations with boys that beats the crap of them and no one
understands why are they accepting all this maybe because they are in love? She
is used with him and his fists ''it doesn't matter that he is hitting me
because I love him so much and i can't leave him!'' We have a short life and if
you accept those things and you even mix love with habit you're a dead person.
There are times when those persons have the courage to respond to the real love
that is outside and it is waiting for them. They just need an impulse. Don’t
get used to things let them be perfect for you in the first time and you'll
have a beautiful life.
