Looks counts

People are telling you that it doesn't matter if you are beautiful or ugly, because it counts how you are inside...well I can tell you that  this is crap....of course it matters how you look. It’s well known that people with good looks are more successful in life than others, why? I give you an example. You have a date with someone and he is ugly as hell. From second one your ears are ''closed''. In your mind comes one thought, and one thought only, I want to leave. He could be a good person, a smart person, but you don't care, and you're not listening him when he talks to you. You just want to leave. In this case your eyes take control of your mind...and there is nothing you can do to stop it. It's true what Mark Twain said: ''Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society''.  All relations in this world are based on that first look. If you go for a job interview, and you wear a suit,99% you'll get that job, if you wear some jeans and a t-shirt, what do you think your rate of success will be? Of course, if you are stupid not even a hat made from peacock feathers will bring that job. You can understand that I don't believe in love at first sight because it is not real that is not love...it is attraction because you don’t' fall in love with his or her personality, or the way she thinks and so on, you ''fall in love'' with her exterior then if you have the patience to know that person, you will fall in love...and real love needs time. So what I am trying to tell you here is that you have to understand people and give them a chance, to arrive at the diamond himself you need to remove all the dirt and impurities.