What do you choose in your life?

Why do we have to choose in life? Why can't we have it both? I'm talking about family and career, or love and money. You grow up and you are ready to go in the world and become a powerful, rich, successful man, and someone of you succeed to do this, and you arrive in a moment when you see that the things that makes you happy is a girl half naked in your bed, your laptop, your smartphone, and your luxurious car, and you are asking yourself this is what I wanted to do in my life? I know everyone wants to become rich to have money...money...money...but if you have tones of money are you really rich? I think people have to look closer and will see that the real richness in life are family, your wife that is there for you no matter what and loves you the way you are, bold, fat, ugly, your kids that are so happy when they see you arriving from work, even though you don't have a big apartment at 80th floor and you have a small house with a small garden, where in the winter you play with your kids, even though your car isn't a Lamborghini or a Ferrari, and it's a Minivan with witch you take your kids from school, and even though you don't have 1000 women in your bed and you have only one, the one for you, and in the morning is preparing breakfast for not looking for her dress because she has to go to another. I wrote this article because Yesterday I saw this to types of men, I was at the pool and I saw a man around his 50's, and he was alone, standing in the sun, he entered the pool couple of times, but his eyes were very sad, and a man with his wife and their two kids a boy and a girl, and they where so happy they were smiling, and cuddling, they were playing in the pool. When I left that place, I saw that that father\husband and he was very happy, deep inside his soul he knew he was very rich with this kind of family, that other man he left the pool and walked very slowly, it seems that he didn't want to arrive that early home, because there's no one there to welcome him, he got in his Porsche, and he left. We are made from love not from money, and the real richness in our lives is our kids, not luxurious things and bank accounts.