Looks counts

People are telling you that it doesn't matter if you are beautiful or ugly, because it counts how you are inside...well I can tell you that  this is crap....of course it matters how you look. It’s well known that people with good looks are more successful in life than others, why? I give you an example. You have a date with someone and he is ugly as hell. From second one your ears are ''closed''. In your mind comes one thought, and one thought only, I want to leave. He could be a good person, a smart person, but you don't care, and you're not listening him when he talks to you. You just want to leave. In this case your eyes take control of your mind...and there is nothing you can do to stop it. It's true what Mark Twain said: ''Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society''.  All relations in this world are based on that first look. If you go for a job interview, and you wear a suit,99% you'll get that job, if you wear some jeans and a t-shirt, what do you think your rate of success will be? Of course, if you are stupid not even a hat made from peacock feathers will bring that job. You can understand that I don't believe in love at first sight because it is not real that is not love...it is attraction because you don’t' fall in love with his or her personality, or the way she thinks and so on, you ''fall in love'' with her exterior then if you have the patience to know that person, you will fall in love...and real love needs time. So what I am trying to tell you here is that you have to understand people and give them a chance, to arrive at the diamond himself you need to remove all the dirt and impurities.

Live your life

Everyday i hear people complaining, that they don't have a boyfriend, a girlfriend, a job, a house, a car, jewelery but the real question is..do you really want those things so bad?and your answer at my question will be..YES OF COURSEEE!!!ok then, you have to stop complaining and do something about it,a human being lives about 80 years,in a lifetime he sleeps 25-30 years..even more,then 15-18 years you lose them by studing, enjoying your childhood and so on.Now you have 30 years to realize your dreams...what's happening if you are complaining...and crying in your home?you lose again precious time.So what do you do?...well you have to start living your life properply.You have to enjoy the life the way she is,let's make an example...you don't have a job, well you have to enjoy the fact that for the moment you are free to do things that you couldn't do when you were working,and when you are over your head with work,try to be thankful because you have something to do.This is one of the problems that people have everyday...when they are going to work,they are bored and they want to stay home to relax and simply do nothing, when they are staying home and doing nothing,they are bored and they want to work.I have a word that things do not fall from the sky..they are on the ground and you have to bend over to get them, that means that you have to work a little bit, to have something that you wish for.I really believe that we have a destiny to fullfil, and this ''road'' that we have to make it could be smooth or full with ''holes''.If your road is full with ''holes'', i can tell you that you are the lucky one, i know that you will laugh when you will read these words..but what  i'm telling you that this is true,because these ''holes'' makes you a strong person, it brings you experience of life,and when you'll arrive at the end of this road you'll be the real winner...why?...because you arrived.The ones who have the smooth road...will learn that this smoothness doesn't last forever...and they will inconter a small ''hole'' the smallest one that you can imagine,do you think that they could continue they're journey?yes...they will continue but, they will lose a lot of time, with realising what is that in the middle of the road...and how can they arrive to the other side.Be happy for what you have...but this doesn't have to stop you, to want more.