Habit or Love?

Every day we do things that can't disturb us or our life. Why? Because we don't love changes if something is changing in your life you are so afraid and dizzy that you can't continue your life. For example if you like a restaurant and you go there for 5 years in a row and everything is good even if you notice time to time that your glass is a little filthy but this is better than to go in a new restaurant. Why do they continue to go in the usual restaurant and not in a new one? Because they are afraid of what they can find there. It is the same thing with your relationship even though your boyfriend is an ass is better than another person that you don't know. At least this one is with you for 5 years. Wroooong! Day by day you're saying,''i am in love'' and you give me examples like : I can't sleep without him, I can't do shopping without him, I can't eat without him. Girls if you didn't get in love with him in the first time after 5 years it doesn't mean that you can't do those things because you are in love is because you made a little friend called HABIT. It looks like love, but is something else. It’s like you are walking on the street and you find a little rat that is so ugly and it doesn't have any hair. First you are disgusted but after some months it seems kind of cute and after some years you will ''love'' him so much that you can't live without him and when you presenting him to your friends they will also be disgusted as you were when you saw him for the first time. No one will understand how you can love that rat so much even though he bites you occasionally and he is so ugly. You are used to him, you don't love him. I agree that love comes in time but you have to feel something about that person when you meet him, something true and nice. There are girls that have relations with boys that beats the crap of them and no one understands why are they accepting all this maybe because they are in love? She is used with him and his fists ''it doesn't matter that he is hitting me because I love him so much and i can't leave him!'' We have a short life and if you accept those things and you even mix love with habit you're a dead person. There are times when those persons have the courage to respond to the real love that is outside and it is waiting for them. They just need an impulse. Don’t get used to things let them be perfect for you in the first time and you'll have a beautiful life.

How men succed to have girls

In this post i want to talk about men,and how they ''trick''girls do be with them.
Let's start with a simple fact,when a women sees a man,and she likes him,she is thinking on having a relationship with him,and not just sex,man on the other hand,he thinks opposite,he doesn't think:Ooo this girl is so beautiful that i want her to be mine for ever,men's mind is made for short term thinking,i want her body period,so when you see a good cookie..what do you do? you eat it! you don't think, i want to savurate the moment.So girls have a long term thinking,and boys a short term,but no one is telling you this,and for a short time  they get along,why? because the man it is showing the same interests as the women,that he wants a long term relationship,he doesn't tell you that,his actions convince you that he wants something serious with you,he's telling you that no one is like you,you are unic,he tries to touch your sensitive part,and we succed,you have to persist in your actions to succed.They are telling you exactly what you want to hear from a man,and as a man it is easy to do this,because  all women are the same,they want the same things,they want to feel special,to be loved,to be adored,to be complimented,caresed,apreciated for what they are.Guys! when they are telling you that the important things in a relation are the little things,they are telling you the truth.It is known that girls cheat because they don't have any of those things mentioned earlier,that for us men,are unimportent,and sex is not a solid motiv for them to cheat us.When you start a relation with a guy you will see that,he is loving, he makes you laugh,he brings you flowers,and you are instantly inlove,it's normal,but after  some time,he is cold with you, it seems like he is a different person,when this will happen,remember that the real him is this one and not that one that you falled in love,and girls are tring to scuse them,he is like this because he is tired,because our relation evolved...really?when a man wants something he will succed,and nothing it's more convincing then sex,but remember you fell in love with his actions,his initial behaviour.Not all guys are like this,because others,fall in love,but they fall in love in time and without theyr aproval.We ''trick'' you, because we fear that knowing the real us we could't arrive to have you in bed,because we are pigs...and who wants to sleep with a pig?I'm not saying that all men are pigs,and all men are bastards,i'm telling you that if you are cute or beautiful,he will want your body and nothing else for the moment,in time you will see he's true intentions.And if your man thinks that he can do better then you, he will leave you,or cheat you.Those who don't stop, are assholes.And girls,if your man cheated you,and you forgive him,he will cheat you again,or if a man cheated his girlfriend with you,he will do the same with you.

The stupidity of men

I think the real story of Adam and Eve is like this.Adam was made,an he was so fuckin' stupid ...that God made the woman,let's admit that they are more inteligent then us, men,in the end, we do what women want,and it's making me crazy because,they are doing all kind of things,but they are doing it in a way that, makes you believe that, you are the one who thought about those things,and you are the one who tooked the decision.Let's take sex. for example..we love sex...100% men are obsessed with one thing..guess what?SEX...and here comes the genius mind..that invents mariage,but wait,they don't ask us to marry them,they don't force us to marry them,we have to do it,and 80% of men hate mariage,why we are doing that? to get constant SEX,see what i'm saying...we are so limited..that when a man receive sex,he believes that he is Superman,try this thing..before you start doing sex,tell him to do something outrages,he will do it...why? because he doesn't think in that moment,his brain is restarting over and over again,it is known that if you want to tell your boyfriend or husband something bad,the perfect moment is when you're doing sex:

               -Honey i cheated you with your best friend

               -Aha

                -Baby i crashed your car in the lake.

                -Aha

                -And i tooked your credit card and made some shopping with just 30.000 euro

                -Aha..faster baby...

                -Ooo i almost forgot,we will have a child

                -Fuuuuck!!!that was good...what you were saying?

                -Nothing babe,let's have antoher round because i forget to tell you something.

Women love the word ''safe'',love means safe,mariage means safe,relation means safe,and knows that man can be hooked with that three letter word,that is not so safe,but an inteligent hunter becomes pray for a moment to catch the real pray.We are so proud when we go out with a girl for the first time...yeah we are the men,but in reality they are the real''men''.They hate us because we are superficial,if you compliment her  eyes her dress,and say something about how good she looks,she will think that we are thinking about sex..and how many positions her body can endurance...well you are right girls,but that doesn't mean that we don't apreciate how beautiful you are inside,or how inteligent you are,it's just that, gravitation makes the blood to arrive more quickly down then up.

In the next post i will talk about how men in their stupidity conceived a simple plan to charm,and get girls.

Looks counts

People are telling you that it doesn't matter if you are beautiful or ugly, because it counts how you are inside...well I can tell you that  this is crap....of course it matters how you look. It’s well known that people with good looks are more successful in life than others, why? I give you an example. You have a date with someone and he is ugly as hell. From second one your ears are ''closed''. In your mind comes one thought, and one thought only, I want to leave. He could be a good person, a smart person, but you don't care, and you're not listening him when he talks to you. You just want to leave. In this case your eyes take control of your mind...and there is nothing you can do to stop it. It's true what Mark Twain said: ''Clothes make the man. Naked people have little or no influence on society''.  All relations in this world are based on that first look. If you go for a job interview, and you wear a suit,99% you'll get that job, if you wear some jeans and a t-shirt, what do you think your rate of success will be? Of course, if you are stupid not even a hat made from peacock feathers will bring that job. You can understand that I don't believe in love at first sight because it is not real that is not love...it is attraction because you don’t' fall in love with his or her personality, or the way she thinks and so on, you ''fall in love'' with her exterior then if you have the patience to know that person, you will fall in love...and real love needs time. So what I am trying to tell you here is that you have to understand people and give them a chance, to arrive at the diamond himself you need to remove all the dirt and impurities.

Live your life

Everyday i hear people complaining, that they don't have a boyfriend, a girlfriend, a job, a house, a car, jewelery but the real question is..do you really want those things so bad?and your answer at my question will be..YES OF COURSEEE!!!ok then, you have to stop complaining and do something about it,a human being lives about 80 years,in a lifetime he sleeps 25-30 years..even more,then 15-18 years you lose them by studing, enjoying your childhood and so on.Now you have 30 years to realize your dreams...what's happening if you are complaining...and crying in your home?you lose again precious time.So what do you do?...well you have to start living your life properply.You have to enjoy the life the way she is,let's make an example...you don't have a job, well you have to enjoy the fact that for the moment you are free to do things that you couldn't do when you were working,and when you are over your head with work,try to be thankful because you have something to do.This is one of the problems that people have everyday...when they are going to work,they are bored and they want to stay home to relax and simply do nothing, when they are staying home and doing nothing,they are bored and they want to work.I have a word that things do not fall from the sky..they are on the ground and you have to bend over to get them, that means that you have to work a little bit, to have something that you wish for.I really believe that we have a destiny to fullfil, and this ''road'' that we have to make it could be smooth or full with ''holes''.If your road is full with ''holes'', i can tell you that you are the lucky one, i know that you will laugh when you will read these words..but what  i'm telling you that this is true,because these ''holes'' makes you a strong person, it brings you experience of life,and when you'll arrive at the end of this road you'll be the real winner...why?...because you arrived.The ones who have the smooth road...will learn that this smoothness doesn't last forever...and they will inconter a small ''hole'' the smallest one that you can imagine,do you think that they could continue they're journey?yes...they will continue but, they will lose a lot of time, with realising what is that in the middle of the road...and how can they arrive to the other side.Be happy for what you have...but this doesn't have to stop you, to want more.